Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Recently while getting to better know an already friendly aquaintence she said something like I bet your house is so neat and always clean! I was able honestly reply, No, that used to be super true. People commented on it all the time-  but these days it's a wreck. She lit up (and obviously so) and really warmed to me and ended up asking me out.

I don't like acting like a mind reader but I think she determined in those seconds that I needed saving.

Update to the previous points: It is now been months since I wrote those thoughts. I still interact with that person and we've actually had a conversation where she described herself as a rescuer. She topped it off by saying, Yeah, when it comes to guys; let me find out they're a mess- then I'm all about them!

Yes, it felt like a personal assault.

2 comments:

an Donalbane said...

I've never been a great neat-nik, but the last three or four years I've really gotten into kind of a rut. If a chick offered to help me clean/organize - heck, I might just let her do it!

el chupacabra said...

Hey Don- FR.It is also a good way to show them how you really are and figure out what they're made of.